Seeking Support from a Divorce Coach
Obtaining support from a divorce coach can be a crucial step in managing the challenges of a divorce. A divorce coach offers specialized guidance and support, focusing on helping an individual navigate the often complex emotional and practical aspects of the divorce process. Here’s what a divorce coach can do:
1. Pre-Legal Advice
If you’re not ready to engage a divorce lawyer but want to start enquiring about the divorce process, consider getting a divorce coach. A coach who is trained in this area can assist you in navigating the complex emotions and challenges you may face going forward.
“Hiring a divorce coach who is also a practicing divorce lawyer in Singapore offers the added benefit of receiving pre-legal advice from someone with legal training.”
2. Objective Support
A divorce coach serves as a neutral “thinking partner,” offering impartial perspectives and support. While family and friends provide support, their views might not always align with yours, potentially leading to additional stress from disagreements about your divorce.
A divorce coach provides a balanced assessment of your situation, aiding in clarifying your true objectives from the divorce and guiding you through your decision-making.
“As an unbiased third party, the coach can also point out potential pitfalls that you might not have noticed on your own.”
3. Paperwork Organisation
Divorce is already challenging, and the accompanying paperwork adds to the difficulty. A divorce coach can help you manage this aspect. In a contested divorce, the paperwork is crucial as it acts as “evidence” to back up your claims.
In a case of an amicable divorce, the paperwork is essential in facilitating a smooth dissolution of the marriage, serving as a link between you, your spouse, and the court.
Read more: What is the Role of a Divorce Coach During the Divorce Process?
Establishing a Clear Financial Picture
Understanding your financial situation is crucial. This means taking a thorough look at your finances, including debts, assets, and income changes post-divorce. Even if you were familiar with your household finances, the transition from dual to single income requires re-evaluation and planning.
- Create a comprehensive list of expenses, debts, savings, and income. This can be a detailed spreadsheet or a visual representation, whichever works best for you.
- Assess key financial aspects like bank balances, credit card debts, loan terms, and your new responsibilities such as tuition or mortgage payments.
Read more: Financial Matters in a Divorce: What are You Entitled to?
Visualizing and Planning Your Future
Envisioning life post-divorce involves planning for what lies ahead. It’s important for an individual to consider their desires and aspirations for the time after the legal process is concluded and it’s time to move on.
This could encompass various goals, such as embarking on a new career, purchasing a new house, or picking up a new hobby. It might also mean simply adapting to a new normal.
The vision one creates should offer a sense of safety, happiness, and security. It ought to bring clarity and foster the anticipation of something positive emerging from these challenging times.
Focusing on the future and imagining life beyond the current circumstances can provide significant mental and emotional relief. It allows a person to momentarily step away from their present difficulties and look forward to a brighter future.
Read more: The Five Universal Stages of Divorce: A Journey Through Separation
How I can Help You
As a qualified divorce coach, my role is to help you handle the emotional ups and downs of a divorce. I’m here to support you, so you feel stronger and more confident as you go through this tough time.
Together, we’ll make sure you can make smart choices without feeling overwhelmed, helping you move forward with ease and certainty.
We’re here for you
At Gloria James-Civetta & Co, we aim to find a solution that will work for you and your family. Our matrimonial law team will provide a consultation tailored to your circumstances and needs.
